Help I Have Lost My Mojo

Help, I’ve lost my mojo. I’m stuck in a rut. The deepest rut of all my life. Nothing seems to be going quite the way I would like things to go and it’s like the noose around my neck just keeps on tightening.

The place I’m in gets me more and more scared. Scared about what’s to come and if I will ever make it again or just even survive.

Bills and expenses keeps piling up and there seems no end to them coming in, while at the same time the income which has long dried up, still completely evades me.

My spouse hates me.

She’s working 3 jobs currently just to get some means together to pay for food and the most essential necessities. But she’s working minimum wages, trading hours for dollars and getting very little for it. It’s not enough to cover our expenses and it never will be as long as that’s the only income we have.

While she’s working her three jobs, I have yet to find a job and the business I had that used to pay for my life and living expenses, has been sold off long ago. Almost 6 years ago in fact. Wow, has it really been that long.

Time flies. But I didn’t fly with it. I didn’t get other things started to ensure new avenues of money flowing in. Yet we all know, money will for sure keep flowing out regardless.

So now 6 years later, no money, no income and none in sight, I’m finding myself in a terrible place, where I’m faced with everything from divorce to lawsuits and yes, even foreclosure.

I cannot believe it.

I mean I’ve always been successful, so how could I ever find myself so stuck in this situation.

Far behind on my promises. Promises to my wife and to my children, to myself and to the world. This is NOT who I am, yet this is where I’m at.

Ouch. This is hurting badly. In fact it hurts so much that I find keeping my thoughts collected is a terribly difficult task on top of everything else.

Health is deteriorating too. It seems this disease is spreading and overflowing into all aspects of life.

Guess it’s all connected.

Stuck!!

How do I get unstuck again?

How do I find my mojo? The good old mojo or indeed, perhaps a brand new mojo? I’m not picky, I’ll take any decent mojo at this point.

Yes, I still have ambitions and aspirations, so I’m not just looking for small results and getting back into place. That is certain. Yet, perhaps, I’m humble and needy enough at this point that I’ll take any and all improvements over none. As long as I get progressively to a better place.

But I’m in need NOW.

Not tomorrow. Tomorrow is too late. Even today it’s already too late, it feels.

No vision and the people will parish says the bible. No hope and it just seems like adopting a ‘why bother any more attitude’ seems the easier choice. But the outcome of that choice surely will lead to the poor house, homelessness, insanity or – dare I say it? – suicide.

Such was the situation of an otherwise brilliant, skillful and experienced Entrepreneur, husband and father. Down and out on his luck.

How had he gotten there?

Well, how do any of us get there. Our outside world that shows up in our lives is a direct reference of the thoughts, vibrations and significant energies we put out. Yes, there may be outside circumstances that have negative pushes onto our lives, such as e.g. in the case of this Entrepreneur’s life, the systemic economic crisis of 2008, when he lost his wealth pretty much over night.

But world economic crisis is not the entire answer to that outcome. We all went through the crisis and many others suffered greatly too, financially and otherwise. Yet, many came back full force again.

Yes, even this Entrepreneur made some remarkable financial recovery after the crisis. Yet, few more years along, and he found himself in a worse spot, if not financially, then certainly emotionally.

This time, it really rocked his mindset.

A mindset that used to be so strong, yet now showed sincere and deep cracks in it.

Actions or lack of actions played of course a great part of landing in his spot too. This is always the case too, yet many of us seem to forget it in our daily lives. But even when this Entrepreneur knew this to be the case, then why was it so hard for him to get into gear and get going again?

Unstuck is an upcoming book, that explores how we can get unstuck in our lives and pick ourselves up again when we find ourselves down and out. Drained of energy and hope, emotionally fragile, how do we find our way out of the rut again? How do we find our mojo and get back into the world as a productive, happy and valuable person again?

If ever, you have found yourself in similar situation, we would love to hear your comments. What was your experience? How did you get back on track?

And if you find yourself to be currently in such a devastating place, then tell us a bit about what your situation currently is. What are you trying to do to keep you afloat and keep your spirits up?

Perhaps the above horrible place is a place in which your spouse is at. If that’s the case, know that I sympathize with you tremendously. A marriage is a united entity, so if one person in the marriage “goes down”, it cannot be avoided it will have terrible effect on the other person, on the marriage and on the family as a whole if there are children in the family too.

The idea behind the book Unstuck and the videos and other material that will become available as many people who find themselves in such a situation as possible. Whether it is themselves, their spouse or a friend they know who is in the dark place and horrible situation, the aim is for this material to be a source of great inspiration, tactics and help to get unstuck again and find the right groove to become alive again.

Your comments and experiences may help tremendously in this quest, so by all means please chime in. You are very appreciated and I’m sending you much love and hugs for being part of this moment and this movement. Help make this endeavor a success so we collectively can help a lot of people get unstuck. Help spread the message and chime in with your insights.